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Action Speaks Louder Than Words

A relationship problem may stem from a variety of circumstances. The degree, however, may range from petty stuff to serious issues. One of the most notable subject matters in this aspect of romantic relationships is action or lack thereof because action speaks louder than words.

Action Speaks Louder Than WordsThink Before You Act

You must have heard of this for a million times now. But the value of thinking before you act never fades each and every time. Although the concept may apply in any situation, it is especially fitting in the subject of relationships.

Once you are involved in a love relationship, you eventually become one with your significant other. Your actions will therefore have an effect on your partner. Not that it is a bad thing. It’s actually a good way of developing responsibility for the things that you do.

Some people even become inspired once they have gotten involved with a special someone. Thus, they have a propensity to do things they do not normally do, just to make his or her other half happy. For instance, an introverted guy would have the motivation to sing in front of the class upon the request of his loved one. Without a doubt, love can bring out the best in every person.

Nevertheless, you have to accept the fact that things do not usually stay that way for so long. Sooner or later, things are bound to change. Take for example a guy who used to be so in love with his beautiful girlfriend. Then one day, he meets this extremely seductive woman and begins to have a sexual affair with her. However, the guy still loved his girlfriend and did not want break it off with her so he kept the intimate relationship with the other girl as hush-hush as possible. Finally, the girlfriend knew of the liaison and immediately broke up with the guy, determined never to give him a second chance.

Because the guy acted without thinking of the consequences, he lost the girl he claims to love. This is where the crucial question comes in: If you were really in love with your romantic partner, why would you ruin the love relationship with an affair? It just doesn’t seem right.

Less Means Less

To some, less action could mean less love. As a matter of fact, a lot of relationships end up in the heartbreak zone because the boyfriend or the girlfriend thinks that their loved one did not show enough effort to make the romantic relationship work. Nevertheless, “less means less” may not always be the case. Different reasons may exist behind the absence or lack of actions shown for the other person.

But to explain more clearly how this concept can result to a relationship problem, picture a young couple of two years. The guy used to relentlessly profess his love for his girlfriend. He also did it with actions, by being always there for her during good and bad times. But he soon became worn-out and decided to break up with the girl. The reason: He felt like the relationship was one-sided and that his love was unrequited.

Action Speaks Louder Than Words

Hearing your girlfriend or boyfriend say, “I love you” is bliss. But to constantly hear the words and not see actions can be frustrating. The same thing applies to you. Heed to this relationship tip: Always support what you say with a suitable deed. If you promised not to drink at a party, then keep your word by actually staying sober.

Also, if you claim to love your romantic partner, do not go around painting the town red. One way or another, your boyfriend and girlfriend will find out about it and you’ll most definitely end up in the heartbreak hotel for doing such an irresponsible act.

Not doing what you promised to do definitely bears an enormous weight in any relationship. It would obviously be a big lie told to your loved one’s face and a blatant disrespect if you persistently break your promises. Keeping this act up will surely help you end up without a boyfriend or girlfriend as quickly as you can say “I’m sorry”.

Always great to hear your thoughts and if you require assistance then hear for you.

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Christina Young (The Healing Heart Coach) is a passionate, loving coach who helps women through the pain of relationship challenges, divorce and life after divorce. Christina is an author of “A Woman’s Guide to Forgiving Infidelity” and “Love is a Rollercoaster” Christina is called on by the media for advice and has been on radio in the UK and USA and interviewed on TV. Having gone through her own personal relationship challenge she understands exactly how painful it can be. Christina knows how life can be when you come from a place of love and forgiveness. Christina is also helping people live a healthy life through the Thrive Experience.