ACKNOWLEDGING YOUR MAN’S ACHIEVEMENTS AND FEELINGS
Being in a bad relationship is perhaps one of a women’s worst nightmares that’s why if you want to preserve and maintain your relationship health, make sure that you take the relationship advices shared in this article.
People all have an innate need to be affirmed, acknowledged and appreciated. Your man – no matter how tough or stern or strong he may seem to be needs to be appreciated as much as you do.
For a love relationship to stay happy and successful, you should learn the power of give and take. If you were used to being the one who receives appreciation and compliments during the courtship stages of your relationship, keep in mind that when you already agree to be in a romantic relationship with your partner, you should also take the time to acknowledge and make your partner feel that he is cherished.
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus is a parody that tries to explain and justify why men and women sometimes just can’t understand each other. For you not to encounter a relationship problem that roots from petty misunderstanding, you should be an open-minded partner to your man.
Avoid being narrow-minded because that will just create a gap between you and your partner. It would be better if you try to understand your man by trying to put yourself in his shoes. By doing so, a great deal of new perspectives and points of view will arise, giving you more chances and opportunities to truly understand and appreciate your partner.
Just The Way You Are
Perhaps the simplest and nicest way to show your man that you appreciate him is by telling him that you love him just the way he is. Tell him that you are contented with the way he is – no more, no less.
Not only will your man beam with pride when you tell him that, but he will also be touched by the fact that you appreciate and accept him for what he is, shortcomings and all. It is really not easy to be in a relationship especially if you and your partner seem to be complete opposites, right? However, if love and a big dose of understanding is present, a relationship will truly be successful in its own right.
Learn To Listen
In a relationship, women are known to be the ones who always talk, the ones who always nag and the ones who just can’t seem to wait to give their partners a piece of their mind. If you are one of the numerous women who just can’t seem to give their partners a chance to talk, you should start changing your ways if you don’t want your relationship to deteriorate.
You see, if you are always talking whenever your partner is around, he will find no chances of being able to talk about his own life, problems, issues, etc. It will be just a one-way communication between the two of you; you talk and talk while he just listens (or maybe he’s just pretending to listen but in fact, he’s really daydreaming or thinking about his own problems).
If your partner is more on the quiet and reserved side, don’t make that a reason for not giving him a chance to talk. Remember, you are his partner, so he will definitely air out his feelings and problems to you eventually as long as you give him the chance to do so. Whenever your man tries to say something, whether it’s about work, friends, a car he wants to buy, etc., make sure that you become genuinely interested about what he’s trying to tell you because for all you know, he might be trying to reach out to you and share his thoughts or feelings about something.
Women are known to be the sensitive and emotional bunch that’s why it won’t be too hard for you to learn how to appreciate and acknowledge your man’s feelings. The key is for you not to be too engrossed in your own issues in life; give your man a chance to talk and share his thoughts, too. Giving time for your man is the best yet most simple way of making him feel that he is cherished and appreciated.
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